Stop Dreaming and Start Moving!

How many days does it take to make a change, or break a habit? After making a move last week to put my condo on the market in Indianapolis, I felt compelled to make some changes on the home front as well. Like the beagle in the photo, each morning I would lie in bed thinking I should get up and walk.  I am a firm believer of manifesting and knowing your thoughts create. Years ago when I broke my foot and couldn’t exercise, I read “The Inner Game of Tennis” and thought constantly about my tennis game and what I would do once I was able to get back on the court. My skills were decidedly better after playing so many strategic matches in my head. However in this case, my slumbered walks were not getting the body moving.

I am on my third day of getting up early. I’m usually a 9:30 a.m. riser, some days later depending on how late I was up the night before.  To avoid the heat, I’ve been  walking the dog three miles around the lake and neighborhood early in the morning.  Actually my husband says it is 2 7/8ths, but I say it’s close enough to three to call it. There are some advantages. I’m meeting my neighbors who are also out walking their dogs, but since I am such a Chatty Cathy it makes a 45 minute excursion more like an hour and 15 minutes. My post-menopausal acne has cleared up from the sweat pouring down my face, nothing like an early morning sauna. I’m going to bed at a decent hour instead of staying up half the night.  And I’m ready to begin working by 10:00 a.m. when in my previous schedule that was when I was just having my coffee.

Unfortunately this is not my first foray into exercise or an attempt to start a new routine. As my pattern goes, I do well for about a week then begin to taper off, eventually stopping altogether. I need a compelling reason besides the obvious ones like losing weight, getting healthy, adopting a more balanced life, etc to keep going. I would like to think those are reasons enough to be good to myself and follow through, but self-sabotage often takes the upper hand.

The only rational  I can think of that will consistently get me awake, moving and out on the walking trail is the sight of Bebe the Beagle. Looking up with pleading eyes as I lie in bed, imploring me to get up, she's hard to resist.  I am her only link to the rest of the world and she lives for those walks. Looks like being a dedicated dog owner trumps my desire for health consciousness in terms of motivation, but no matter if the results are the same. It’s a win for everybody, thanks Bebe.



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Becky Arrington guides individuals and businesses to discover their purpose and live authentically. Whether you’re a company looking for innovative ways to lead and engage employees or an individual trying to prioritize, reduce stress or decide what you want to be when you grow up, learning to accept and thrive in change is key.